For queer, gay and bisexual men and couples
lingr takes you from the first message to actually meeting – openly through events and locations, or protected through Safe-Meet.
Ad-free. Hosted in Frankfurt. No tracking pixels.
Two ways
At a festival, the question is who is actually there. Meeting one person at a private address, the question is whether anyone knows where you are.
The open way
A festival, a bar, a Sunday morning running group. You go because something is on – and you see beforehand who is actually there.
The protected way
A meeting for two, at the place of someone you do not know yet. You tell a trusted contact by when you will check back – and they only learn the details if you do not.
If you do not feel safe, you do not go. That is why this is not an add-on – it is built in.
The scope
Events, locations, people – that is what you do. Underneath lies a finished app: every feature at a glance.
Events
Festivals, club nights, running groups – public for everyone or private by invitation.
Locations
Curated queer bars, clubs and meeting points. With opening hours and a check-in on site.
People
Profiles with filters that work, status and pulse. Connections, favourites and a feed that shows what counts today.
The foundation
All three stand on the same ground: you know who you are dealing with. Someone knows by when you will check back. And you decide what of you is visible.
Why lingr exists
“We were fed up with bugs, ad pop-ups and an app that had not changed in 15 years. So we built lingr.
And then we realised: the actual problem was not the app. It was that most conversations ended in the chat.”
We are launching city by city. When lingr starts where you are, you will be the first to know.
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