The social network for queer, gay and bisexual men
Groups, meetups and events in your city — and the people you share them with. Discover, meet up, stay connected.
Launching in Munich · early 2027
How it works
Join groups for the things you enjoy: running, board games, cooking, culture. Started by people from your city.
A meetup of your group, a dinner night, an event in town. You see in advance who is coming — and who you already know.
Connect with the people you have met. What they are up to next is the first thing you see when you open lingr.
You are both in “Queer Laufen an der Isar”
Event photos are AI-generated
Groups
A running club, a game night or new in town: in a group you get to know people through a shared hobby instead of a photo. If your group doesn't exist yet, start it yourself and invite friends with a link.
Profile photos are AI-generated
Meetups
Host a dinner night or join the Sunday run. As the host, you decide who comes along. The exact place is only visible to the people who are in — and only once there are at least three of you.
Profile photos are AI-generated
Together instead of alone, at your own pace.
Everyone brings something, everyone eats together.
Board games, cards, quizzes – and lots of laughs.
Couch, a film, good company.
A drink in your neighbourhood.
Events
Pride, club nights, readings, concerts: your city's queer events in one place. Before you head out, you see who is going and who of them you already know. Going alone doesn't feel like going alone anymore.
Event photos are AI-generated
People
Every day, lingr shows you people you have something in common with: a group, a meetup, an event. Always with the reason. No map, no distance — just what connects you.
Profile photos are AI-generated
Profile
Your profile shows what makes you you: interests, a few questions, what you are here for. Your age, your social media and more photos are only visible to the people you share them with — for a day, a week or until you take it back.
Profile photos are AI-generated
Hide from contacts Right at sign-up
A colleague, your brother-in-law, the neighbour downstairs: pick them from your address book, and you don't see each other on lingr. You can do this right at sign-up, before anyone sees you at all. Nobody is notified.
Safe-Meet Optional
Before a meetup you note where you are and by when you want to be back. Your trusted person sees none of it — only that something is going on. If you check in on time, everything is deleted. If you don't, they get the details automatically.
Authenticity status
People who know you can confirm that your profile is real. The more confirmations someone has, the surer you can be. Only your connections can confirm you — and every confirmation can be taken back.
Profile photos are AI-generated
Why lingr
No grid sorted by metres: you see people you share a group, a meetup or an event with. Others only see your city and district.
No filters by body or background. Profile texts that shut others out don't go through — and there is zero tolerance for hate.
Hiding from contacts, Safe-Meet and who can find you: on lingr, safety and visibility are never for sale.
No ads, nothing for advertisers. Your data is stored on servers in Germany, and you can delete your account yourself at any time.
For queer, gay and bisexual men aged 18 and over, cis and trans, who want to meet new people and do things together.
No. There is no map of people and no distance. Others only see your city and district.
In early 2027. The app will be available in Germany, Austria and Switzerland, with groups and meetups starting in Munich. Everyone on the waiting list hears the date first.
Nothing. If something paid is added later, we will say so openly. Safety and visibility will never cost anything.
One email when the app is out. After that, only when there is really something to say.
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