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People

What you share comes first.

No grid, no distance. lingr introduces you to people you already share something with — and you decide when it turns into a conversation.

Suggestions

New people every day — with a reason.

Every day, lingr introduces you to people you share something with: a group, a meetup, an event. Every card says what connects you and which interests you have in common.

  • Only people with something in common. Anyone who shares nothing with you doesn't show up here — and you don't show up for them.
  • Filters for what matters. By interests and by what someone is here for: friends, sports, activities or new in town.
  • Shuffle. Nobody right for you today? Just shuffle again.
People in lingr: today's suggestions, each with what you have in common
Today's suggestions.
A profile in lingr with Message, Connect and Invite and the In common section
A profile with everything you have in common.

Profile photos are AI-generated

First contact

Say hello, no pressure.

If you have something in common, just write. The top of the chat shows what connects you — which makes the first line easier.

  • Strangers ask first. Anyone who shares nothing with you sends a request with a first message. You decide whether to reply.
  • No endless loop. If a request goes unanswered, it's over after 72 hours. After a second unanswered request, that person can't write to you anymore.
  • A friendly ending. If it's not a fit, you end the conversation with a kind sentence instead of silence.
  • Stay connected. After a chat or a meetup together you can connect — then you see what the other is up to.
A chat in lingr, at the top a note that you are both going to the same meetup
At the top of the chat: what connects you.
Ending a conversation in lingr: three friendly sentences to choose from
End a conversation kindly.

Profile photos are AI-generated

Profile

You decide who sees how much.

Your profile shows what makes you you: photos, your interests, a few questions like “My perfect Sunday …” and what you are here for. lingr doesn't even ask for height, weight or body type.

  • More of you, just for some. You share your age, social media and more photos person by person — for a day, a week or until you take it back.
  • Your photo stays yours. Shared photos carry the name of whoever is looking at them and disappear during a screen recording.
  • Strangers can't find you. You can only be found through what you share — or, if you want, by your exact @name.
  • This is how others see you. A preview shows your profile through the eyes of others.
Your own profile in lingr with photo, interests and questions
Your profile.
More about me in lingr: share age, social media and albums with one person
Share what one person may see.

Profile photos are AI-generated

Board

So nobody drifts out of sight.

When you open lingr, you first see your week: your next plans and what your people are up to — an event, a meetup, a photo from the weekend. That way you meet again instead of losing touch.

  • Only for your connections. What you share is only seen by the people you are connected with.
  • You decide every time. lingr asks before anything lands on your Board.
  • Nothing stays forever. Posts disappear after seven days at the latest.
The lingr home screen: your week with your next plan, at the top the connections who shared something
Your week — your people at the top.
The Board in lingr: meetups and events your connections are going to, and a short post
What your people are up to.

Profile and event photos are AI-generated

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Profile photos are AI-generated